I kinda agree with Bolt on this. I mean he was Dbing for months and turns his W was either faking positive interactions or waiting for the other shoe to drop from Bolt. Bolt was making substantive changes.
I think calling it DBing at this time just gives the idea of false hope. And no, I'm not saying there is NO hope. Having said that the things that he should be doing as part of the DB principles will serve him well in the long run.
But I don't think following a list is going to be helpful at this point.
Bolt- I think you might have more time than you think (that may or may not matter.) I don't know and/or practice Ohio Law, but I don't see how your W gets around the 6-month residency requirement, plus it sounds like she needs your cooperation to get the dissolution. I'm sure your A will have this info for you.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.