Angel, You should definately sit him down and discuss this. But I would hesitate to send the letter. I would even hesitate to use it for cliff notes quoting your daughter. It will not be received in the way you intend, and it will corner him into the defensive. He needs the "freedom" to absorb the gravity of this issue. Self inflicted wounds are very serious business. The best thing would be for him to have a similar discussion with your daughter, the same as you had. But you have to at least talk to him about it.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
