Need help ASAP- panic attacks

[ninelives]

Angel:

As painful as this is for you and I am sure it would be painful for your husband, and you are very correct in my opinion that we should put the needs of our loved ones ahead of ourselves.

I dont think you should guilt your husband into coming back. He would be miserable and I dont think that you would have any kind of happy life together. Indeed, i believe he would leave again down the road with even more resentment.

I really understand your distress, who wouldnt be distressed in this situation but really think about what you are doing here.

You are guilting your husband into coming back. A band aid approach IMHO.

Perhaps make him aware of what happened but without all the other things that you mentioned. Let him weigh the pros and cons and let him make a decision without all that added pressure.

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