Please don't give your H this letter until some of the vets have weighed in on it. My gut tells me that you could be making a bad situation worse.
From what I know about cutting, people who do this are seeking to relieve the pressure caused by the pain that has built up. Please educate yourself in the best way to help your D deal with this sitch.
Do you know if any of her friends use this method of trying to deal with stress?
