W called this morning to tell what the realator had said. After that she wanted to talk to our D2. I lied and said she was napping. W told me she would call back later.

I texted w to remind her to transfer in her half of the mortgage. She writes back that she will in the morning and that she is gonna call in a bit to talk to D2. I wrote her that it was not a good idea bc D2 was really acting strange and asking for her mom a lot and I think that just talking to her on the phone will only set it off again. W calls anyways. I was playing with my D2 in her room. I grabbed the phone and headed to my bedroom. I explained it again to my W. At first she tried to change my mind and then she became angry. Gave me real short answers. I ended the call.

I sent her a text stating again the way our D2 had acted after the library and had been all weekend. W starts in about how much she misses her. She then starts in about how she thinks she should get more time with her then me. That it would be "in D2's best interest." I quickly shot this down. Tellng her that I don't think she realizes how much my time means to our D2 too. She agrees

Now this next thing was a big mistake. I sent her a pic of D2. She replys "adorable. So u can send me a pic of her but I can't talk to her." I reply that I won't make a habit of doing it, but I just felt that tonight it was in her best interest. W writes back that it was b.s. What I did and that she has every right to talk to her D2. Another mistake maybe. I write that it is not about her and that she can call in the morning. No response.

I'm questioning many of my actions. For one, should I have just let her talk to her D2. I think I acted out of anger with my resent sitch and she saw right through me using my D2. Now she is at OM new place and telling him what an ass I am. His dumb@ss is agreeing with everything she is saying and telling her to get rid of me.


Me: 28
W: 29
D2
M: 3 1/2
T: 5 1/2
Sep: Nov 10

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