when you have moved on

[forward]

I have asked myself why I keep reading and posting, and I guess some of it is because I am not sure that those of us who deal with this are ever truly "over it." I have moved on in that I don't think about X every day, but the experience has left its mark, too. It's made me question how I feel about marriage, in particular.

In some ways, we might be lucky ones as we have opportunity to explore and learn and grow from our experiences.