I know how hard this is. Unfortunately, that is what we have to deal with to get our spouses back. Just concentrate on you. If you get the urge to contact him, just ask yourself..Am I ready for it? Have a fixed me enough that I know I can be happy around them without them affecting my feelings? These are things I am doing.
I agree with Brian. If you are able to continue the track of not responding, I would say it's highly likely he is going to start getting more persistent.
