thanks everyone brooklyn, we are looking into a therapist my h spent a few days with him alone last week and is very frightened now
his best friend called me on friday and said that my h was inconsolable on the phone. my h called him from airport on the way to a gig and his friend said that he was seriously considering cancelling the show...
he is coming home tonight and i actually am not looking forward to it
my son is doing fine right now
he really gets when my h is away at a show as opposed to 5 min away he is good when his dad is doing a show
i am trying to be his rock he knows i'm always there and luckily i have a big family and my sister and brothers are already stepping up and making sure he they can count on them as well
i appreciate the concern it helps so much to hear other experiences and perspectives
however ([censored] that there has to be an however), that any child ever has to go through this pain is the stuff of nightmares
