Sanderika, this is the first time I have ever recognised your anger and I must say I think this is a healthy thing. I agree with what Kara has written. H has taken on the victim's role, filled with justification for his actions. This is not a man ready to move to a 'give and take' arrangement required in any healthy relationship.

Of course, you hurt. This is all very painful. Be loving, caring and compassionate towards the most important person in this....you. You deserve the peace and joy I mentioned in my last post. Work towards this goal now. You are the most important person at this moment!

warm hugs,

Cas