YEAH!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE it when a perfect DB'ing moment occurs!!!!!!!!!!....and let me tell you that unless your H is deep in the fog (and it doesn't sound like he is as deep anymore) that they DO notice. My XH has referred to post-bomb things over the past 6 months that I thought he was totally oblivious to...........and favorite scents in the air.....those activate a very primitive area of the brain (limbic system) that will evoke feelings in H for which he won't even be aware. Love it that you were airing out the house too.
H not mentioning D or house business says that he has mixed feelings about it. If he didn't, he would have said SOMETHING about it. Keep creating that doubt in H's mind.
I know what you mean about seeing glimpses of the man you feel in love with. As bittersweet as that is I always found it reassuring that I hadn't imagined or fabricated the person I fell in love with.
