Good to hear the funeral all went as smoothly as possible. You DB'd amazingly hun. Just goes to show that "taking the long route" so often talks to so many people all though takes longer for the WAS to get the point. I expect H will pull back now, you have shown him every thing he needs to see, he just needs to decide he wants it now, this is the hardest bit I reckon waiting for them to decide!
Its gonna be hard now, but maybe the best thing is to go say bye to SIL leave some thing for him to eat (excuse to bring dish back) and then walk away yourself. He needs to miss you hun!
Interesting that he told BMF he wanted space and BMF thought it didnt apply to him. But the good news is he tried to make a stand with BMF even though it didnt work this time. In Mr Rabbits case the BFF was my sister a friendship he rekindled when he thought we were over, I know she had a big impact on him moving out and when she came to visit thought she'd done me a favour by finding him somewhere to live. BF of the incorrect type seem to have a hold over them that is really hard to break. Once Mr Rabbit had decided for our marriage, and came home, I had strict boundaries about her, but at first it was impossible to get him to stick to them, but the more he wanted me the less he wanted her friendship, and its now been quite a while since I have had to "put my foot down" so to speak..
Have you booked for TT this week? If you have Id be tempted to play but no drink/eating afterwards, like I said before he has to feel your loss..
Anyway hun Im so proud of you, you really did good and if all of this just comes to nothing you can hold your head well high xx
Rabbit
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
