Your wife does sound confused so very possibly going thru a life crisis that may have been triggered from your EA... I brought this over from your newcomers thread!
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I guess this is really where my confusion lies. What is there to "DIVORCE BUST"? I mean, I know it will be to help me but I've always had in the back of my mind that it will save my M and that's the true reason I was doing it.
I know that sounds bad but that's how I think. I feel I've lost and there's no way coming back? I mean, NAVY, did your wife file? Mine didn't even do that! She wants a dissolution - that's even faster! If she would file, we would have 6 months of dbing...but now I have less than 40 days.
I just don't see the point at this point.
At first DBing is about saving our M's...then it becomes about saving ourselves...it becomes a way of life...you DB for YOU.
Others will be along to explain that better! You might want to put a link to this new thread on your old one in nc's so that your friends over there can find you here!
Hang in there Bolt!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
