Bolt, sorry to hear about this. I agree with the other two - you do owe it to yourself and your kids to keep DB'ing. I think I've learned that DB'ing is more about permanent changes and a way of life than it is to get your W back. I can completely understand being angry with your W and not loving her right now. However, it may help to take a step back and really see where you're at.
I guess this is really where my confusion lies. What is there to "DIVORCE BUST"? I mean, I know it will be to help me but I've always had in the back of my mind that it will save my M and that's the true reason I was doing it.
I know that sounds bad but that's how I think. I feel I've lost and there's no way coming back? I mean, NAVY, did your wife file? Mine didn't even do that! She wants a dissolution - that's even faster! If she would file, we would have 6 months of dbing...but now I have less than 40 days.
I just don't see the point at this point.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
