Let Us Be Outstanding Together. Part 3

[Busting Mode]

Hey Everyone,

Took a little hiatus from the boards for awhile. Had some things that I wanted to focus on doing for myself that were...more important than DBing.

Yeah. And in so doing I discovered some things that are even more important to me than "winning" back my wife or "saving my marriage."

Last weekend I attended a personal development workshop called The Landmark Forum. It is something I have been wanting to do for years and finally got the opportunity to attend.

True to it's billing, the experience was transformative. Without question a landmark, a milestone, a turning point in my life. The forum has been described as "an inquiry into the realm of possibilities". So if an expanded world view with unlimited possibilities is something that sounds appealing to you, then I highly recommend you check it out for yourself.

During the forum, many new possibilities arose for me, and now, even a week later, things just keep on getting clearer, and more and more doors are opening.

During the forum, we explored the value of our words, and the power our words have to create and define our world. We saw the depth and impact of the meaning that we give to things, and how those meanings determine our course of action. We also learned how to let go of meanings that no longer serve us.

For example, before attending the forum I had two beliefs that were simply fatal to having any kind of healthy, long-term relationship.

The first belief was that women can't be trusted.
And the second belief was that...I am always right.

Yeah. No wonder I am here.

I am so grateful for that insight. Now, I am being the possibility of "a clearing" in all of my relationships. I am being the possibility of enjoying an authentic relationship with L---- whether we get divorced or not. I am being the possibility of a transformation in myself and in our marriage, no matter what she decides.

Life is good. More later.