I don't think my X will finish for some years. He just hasn't learned to take responsibility for himself and his own happiness.
And to realize that you get out of things what you put into them. If you make no effort in a R, then you can't be too surprised when it doesn't work out.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D