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I dunno forward.

I miss our family as much, no more, than I miss her now. I've dated. They've all been divorced with kids, having full custody. That's one thing holding me back. I don't want a new family, I want my family.

I just took the kids to her ending my week and beginning hers. I'm siting here in a vaccum of silence in the house in which we were a family (mistake?).

I can't see myself falling in love and starting over again.


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Sleeper, We all understand, but it's not a matter of a new family so much as blending families.

I would be lying if I didn't admit that it does indeed seem daunting to blend families. But I don't think that should prevent us from seeing new love.


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And I can guarantee you that the OM probably is having these exact adjustment issues now, by the way.


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So I have gathered.

The dreams are returning.


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Sleeper, What dreams do you mean?

Just remember: any failure of marriage with them is not a sign you are meant to get back together.


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Sleeper could you start a new thread please?



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OK Jack

You're the moderator.

I'm outta here.


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OK, sleeper, I know there is supposed to be a new thread, but you didn't start one and was just wondering how you're doing.


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Quote:
...how you're doing.


I was notified by phone today the ______ that raped my daughter when she was not quite three is up for parole in a month.

sorry Jack


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Can you appear at the hearing, or has it already passed?

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