Atty sent the parenting plan - mostly standard stuff - only really applies when we physically seperate. I showed it to W. We'll check some things off and agree on some things and send it back.
A little Sunday morning rambling:
In a way I am actually looking forward to the S, but won't force the issue for the sake of S12. At least she'll be gone for spring break. She's doing a "City Slickers" dude ranch thing with a GF - part of her bucket list.
In all our years, she never mentioned specific things she wanted to experience, other than travel to certain places. In 2007 we did visit China and Hong Kong, walked the Great Wall and the Forbidden City, also went to London and Paris, climbed the Eiffel Tower, of course that was when the economy was strong and before two pay cuts.
Now she has a bee in her bonnet about shoveling horse manure, and who knows what else. Couple that with her EA/PA with a married creep and you have a full blown MLC.
I've gotten past much of that though; I don't even get angry anymore - that would mean I still care. My only love for her now is for a lost soul caught in a trap, and I hope she gets to the other side one day. Other than that, this is not the same person I married. I'd hesitate to rush back into any R with this person. So much for compassion.
She has forsaken her vows, her faith, our common friends, my whole side of the family (with whom we went to China and Paris) and followed the same path as her own mother, a path for which she despises her. I cannot imagine givng up all those things and being of sound mind.
I am so glad I have my son and daughter - I appreciate them more, if that were even possible.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
