Although my H has never use the word betrayed to me, I know that is what he feels about my efforts to get him to seek help for his PTSD and alcohol abuse. I let the cat out of the bag. Plus the added benefit of getting to be mad at me and not face the guilt of his own actions.
You are right on every point, BETRAYED is not a word your H should use to you. Just try to remember, he's seeking every avenue he can to avoid facing his own guilt. ((HUGS))
