SA, It took me a very long time to understand the "method to his madness" routine. Once you understand that it's all about them and how they want things to be, you then can side step the mess and do what you need to do to live your life w/o being caught up in their drama.
Don't say another word to him about the names on the bills. Try to change as many as you can. He's like a kid who doesn't want to let go of his toys. The less you say to him about them, the better...it's control and that's what he thrives on right now.
Enjoy your day and do something special for you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
