Ok, I took a big risk and i think it might be paying off. my wife has mentioned in a few conversations about her wanting to get her own place and how om wants this as well.
I offered her to move into the spare room. I did tell her this was for our children and our financial situation. She would not be coming home to work on the marriage but to raise our children and to keep all that we have worked for in the last 10 years.
I sent this in an eail, not knowing when she would get it as she hardly ever checks her email.
Today i get a text from her "iwant you to know i read your email and am seriously considering your offer.....will need a little time though."
I didnt know what to say and this is what came out. "Take all the time you need. This is not something to decide quickly."
So i did put myself out there, but i think it might have been the push she needed. Now the trick is to lay low, see what she does. If she comes home, it will be extremely hard not to try and work on things, but baby steps. I will keep working on me and see what she does.
I feel that this board is getting very quiet, like people are not reading or supporting me. But i keep writing as it helps me.
