Sanderika. So many emotions went through me as I read what you wrote.
In some ways it mirrors the joint counselling sessions ( 3) that I had with my H.
Except at the end she said, " Your marriage is over, I wish I could take the pain away, things will be better in 18 months."

Maybe I should have listened to her then and started divorce proceedings. I don't know.

I am sorry you hurt Sandrika, I'm glad you found a kind man as your counselor to help you through this. I am so sad for you.

BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.