So things are going well, I have had plenty of dates.....finally moving out of the marriage house, etc., then the ex drops another bomb on me today. She says "I have been seeing our old marriage counseler and I think I have a lot to let go of. She said, I have been crying a lot becuase I am in what is known as the "thaw". The therapist said that I have a very "high tolerance/acceptancece threshhold for alcoholism with people and have tolerated too much of it with respect to you and my dad. Once I resolve this, I should be able to make better decisions moving forward". ARE YOU [censored] KIDDING ME!!!!!!!!!!!!! STILL BLAMING ME 100% FOR THIS FAILED MARRIAGE and NOT TAKING THE BLAME FOR 1) NEVER GIVING ME A CHANCE, 2) GOING OUT UNTIL ALL HOURS OF THE NIGHT AND CHEATING, STEALING AND FILING FOR THE DIVORCE IN THE FIRST PLACE. I swear I wanted to knock her injto next week. I am not sure I have ever been this angry about anyt statement made in my entire life. I didn't think she could hurt me anyomore but I am furious......that she cannot take one ounce of blame.....REALLY!, REALLY!


M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling