Hey Everyone, I haven't been here in awhile and wanted to give an update to my situation. It looks like the STBXS and I have agreed on everthing and all that is left is to sign the final divorce decree. It will be bittersweet......18 years togethor down the crapper. Man, how things can change in one year. The good news is that we are both cordial with one another and we did make 3 wonderful kids togethor who are handling everything VERY well. I am ready to move on with my life now.
Good luck to you all
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
Just wanted to check in and see how everyone is doing? My final decree was recorded in december and things are GREAT around here. Kids are good, I'm good and up to my knees in women
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
So things are going well, I have had plenty of dates.....finally moving out of the marriage house, etc., then the ex drops another bomb on me today. She says "I have been seeing our old marriage counseler and I think I have a lot to let go of. She said, I have been crying a lot becuase I am in what is known as the "thaw". The therapist said that I have a very "high tolerance/acceptancece threshhold for alcoholism with people and have tolerated too much of it with respect to you and my dad. Once I resolve this, I should be able to make better decisions moving forward". ARE YOU [censored] KIDDING ME!!!!!!!!!!!!! STILL BLAMING ME 100% FOR THIS FAILED MARRIAGE and NOT TAKING THE BLAME FOR 1) NEVER GIVING ME A CHANCE, 2) GOING OUT UNTIL ALL HOURS OF THE NIGHT AND CHEATING, STEALING AND FILING FOR THE DIVORCE IN THE FIRST PLACE. I swear I wanted to knock her injto next week. I am not sure I have ever been this angry about anyt statement made in my entire life. I didn't think she could hurt me anyomore but I am furious......that she cannot take one ounce of blame.....REALLY!, REALLY!
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
M: 39 W: 39 Kids (3): S10; S8; D4 Married 14 years Togethor: 18 years Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009 Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10 Current Status: In counseling
