MLC Purgatory

[peacetoday]

Meganna

The way the mlcer acts does not make sense to anyone but the mlcer

You are at the hardest point right now
Take it slow
Take care of yourself and find ways that help you relax and feel better at least for a bit
like exercise, rest, music, friendship, supportive women
At this phase, we need to accept the many unanswered questions about our H and their choices
Ususally, there is nothing that will wake them up
they need to learn to trust us for now
that is why it is better to say little and allow them to say what they need..we dont agree, but as one poster said earlier, we can say I dont agree with your decision but I will not stand in the way

This is the time to focus on you
You will find a way to work it out along the way
No, it is not what any of us wanted, but looking back I would not
change what is-

So can you trust yourself
Can you trust that it has worked for us
do you have any spiritual beliefs that may help you now
The first few months are the hardest part
Soon, the pain will lessen and you will see how strong you really are
you are not alone
Peace