I know I did everything wrong there, but I couldn't stop. I didn't mean to start crying, it snuck up on me, and then I was so overcome with emotion that it took over.
Do most divorces go like this? Where one spouse just decides in their own head they're done and then springs it on the other spouse? Is it "typical" to act all weird, confused, depressed, refuse to make decisions or discuss things? Run away? I know that's the bulk of what's seen here, but is that the norm for most people who want out of a marriage? Is mine the typical way it goes down, or is this out of the norm because of his childhood issues? Or some other reason? I just don't get it. What person in their right mind would rather end a M without trying to fix it, if not just for the sake of the kids they profess to love so much?
Me- 35 H- 36 M- 7 T- 9 D3, D5 Bomb 1/21/11 EA/PA began 12/10? Discovered A 3/2/11 S- 3/3/11 OW gone- 4/27/11 H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action
