What is your schedule with yourD? do you have certain days then your W has them?
It still revolves around W's work schedule, much like it was before. She works 3 nights a week. It works out as 2 week nights and every other weekend. These are the nights I have D, nights she has off, she has her. The only tweak has been on her weekend off I get D that Monday. This way it works out 50/50. I get 7 nights/days every two weeks.
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