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[MynameisMZ]

I would think it would be important to have him spend time with your friends that know the "we" and "us" part of you both.

My H and I are now in Piecing and a big part of what we do is to be sure to do things with our friends. I took it as a good sign when he was with them during his A.

It really sounds like you are doing DB well. He seems to be responsive.

I hear you when you keep saying you are scared to get your hopes up. However, if building your self-esteem is a goal for you, this (DB techniques and the patience required) will help you get there. You have to trust yourself.you're doin' good!