Keeping the Faith

[Sanderika]

(((((Cas)))))

I am happy that your little adventure to the hospital was not all that serious

I see so many good things happening with your H. His actions are showing care and concern even though he is not using words to express it. Actions Speak Louder Than Words!!!

He is expressing ideas to you that make your current day to day a lot easier. So many positives:

Making meals for you and daughter.
Suggesting he help you so you can sleep in.
Helping daughter with homework.
Driving daughter to obligations.
Calling with concerns for your health and well-being.
Buying and installing the DVD player.
Working on the "around the house to do" list.
This man is thinking about Christmas, WOW!!! It's 8 months away. I've never met a man who was overly concerned for Christmas even when there was 24 hours left to go!!!!!!
I bet you have more....

Your H has been making progress behind the scenes. He is once again making effort and trying to repair the damages. Every time he comes out into the light, he is better at reconnecting and shows more compassion than his previous peek. This time feels different. He is different. He also lingers longer.

Just like GAG, your expectations must remain at NONE. You know this as does she. Do not lose sight of the possibilities in front of you....You have reasons for hope.

I want this for you so very much, you are sooo deserving of love, happiness, trust, respect and forgiveness. Your H is showing you all of these things right now. Your H is experiencing the same reciprocating feelings from you too!!! Commitment is going to be one of the last remaining actions you will see. It is possible that it will happen so slowly that one day it will just be....

(((((Cas))))) my friend, please take care. You are a remarkable and resilient lady with so much to offer. Good things are going to happen for you.

Sanderika