Bolt, Well, what could I possibly say other than I do agree with Harrier. Your w is a coward and what she did is unfathomable. To play a person to those lengths is absolutely unbelievable. But, to do it to your husband is just leaves me without words. I know your mind is probably filled with thoughts of revenge and anger. Take some time to process that. Anger will be part of this for right now. Don't deny yourself that anger. If you don't feel it and let it run it's course, it will stay with you longer than necessary. Just be sure to deal with it here. Never in front of your w or children. I know that you already know that, but sometimes it just helps to have someone kindly remind you. Just some words of wisdom from a friend.
Yes, be there for your children and avoid your w for a spell. She reminds me quite a bit of my w right now. She seems to be using her anger for one of two reasons. She either feels the need to punish you for some reason or she is staying angry so that she won't have time to process what she is doing. Either way, you can't defeat this and it will only make you feel worse if you try to combat it. Just get out of there for now. Take some time for yourself so that you can gain a better understanding of what is going on and how to proceed. You are capable of dealing with this. You and I both know it. You just took a shot to the face. You are stumbling a bit. Your knees are buckling, BUT YOU ARE STILL STANDING. Take a breath, go to your corner, think this out and come out swinging. You are BOLT!!!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
