SA, It's difficult to try to figure them out, but my take is that he does feel some guilt for what he's done. My lawyer advised me when my xh walked out the door to accept any and all funds from him and spend it to suit my needs. If he offers you funds for the bills, take it and pay them. After all, he is the one that has put you in this mess.
I'm sorry your daughter opted to go on vacation w/him and the ow. I'm sure it wasn't what you wanted.
Please try to have a good weekend and do something special for yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
