Another New Day 2

[islander]

I did read your sitch Country. I just haven't really been on this forum. I just needed a break. I agree with your thoughts. I think at some point we can't keep everything inside and have to let our WAS know what we are thinking and what we are feeling.

I thought a lot a out the movie "The Break Up"

The problem in that whole movie with the couple was that they never told each other how they felt. If one of them would have done so, there wouldn't have been a movie.

This may be a weak analogy, but it was what I was thinking about. My W assumed I was mad at her for what happened. I had not spoken to her since then, so how could she know what I thought. For me, I needed to tell her what I was feeling, so I did.

I did feel better afterward too. And I still do. I needed her to know how I felt, and now she does. I am going to leave it at that.

Hang in there Country, I think you have a lot going for you