The songs at the right time are very encouraging. My Hope is in God and not my wife. He's working on her heart for I know He loves her and cares for us. It's a battle to hold on. for sometimes her words and demeanor are haunting. But God Gave me a verse that will not allow me to give up.
Isa 50:2 "When I came, why was there no one? When I called, why was there no one to answer? Was my arm too short to deliver you? Do I lack the strength to rescue you? By a mere rebuke I dry up the sea, I turn rivers into a desert; their fish rot for lack of water and die of thirst."