I think I'm too early in the forum to offer a 2x4, but... ;-)
You did what you did, so there's no taking it back. 2x4 or not, you deal with the consequences.
Of course, here's to hoping it was received well from your W's end. I get / got a lot of "we" talk, but I'll tell you... there is an ambush behind every positive tree, it seems. On my side, the W appears to be "holding the SD hostage". So I'm not even counting positives at this time. I'm letting things happen as they will, work on me, journal here (to vent anger and frustration) and otherwise just move forward.
I hope for a good outcome from the email and conversation with your W. Cheers!
