I'm not going to hammer you at all. If you look at my sitch I just said a lot to my W as well. At some point it is about our own mental health. If what we say is genuine, and it helps us move forward, IMO it is worth saying. I bottled up too much and I see now that it helped me move forward to let it out.

I might get hammered as well for my response, but like I said, we need to do what is right for us. Even if it might not be the best thing towards R. And I'm not saying that what you did didn't help R. It's just that at some point that needs to be a second thought to out own well being.

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.