I see that you are located in MN. It sounds as though your current situation is uncertain. I thought you might like to know about new legislation in MN for "Couples on the Brink" (www.washingtontimes.com/news/2010/may/25/minnesota-will-pick-tab-counsel-divorcing-couples/). I'm not recommending a specific course of action. I just thought you might like to know that if your H is He77bent on D, the described above is currently available.
