Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans

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"so OM was upset last night, huh?"


She already told you last night.

Don't bring him up.

We want that validation, we really really want it to make sure that f-er is 6 feet deep, and maybe jump up and down on the grave too.

Bringing him up, reminders her of the hurt she caused, reminds her of him. Instead of having a nice day together she enjoys.

Plus it can be seen as a victory lap.


Hmmm... I didn't see anything wrong with me saying that until I just read this post. You are absolutely right Jack. And you are also right about it being about my own need for validation. Thanks for that.

Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
We don't care that he gets hurt, in fact lets be honest, we sort of enjoy it. Serves him right. Can I get an Amen?


AMEN!!

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M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce