Thanks SL, Harrier. Yup, better late than never. Harrier i think you are right about person never being the same.
When i look back to how i was when i got married, I am happy as to my views and principles are now. I like how my wife helped me get here. Yea, I'd love to get back again with my 'new' changed wife. My only fear being what if she still lives with the idea that she was 100% right and need not change. But i guess that is not in my hands. If she does change, i'll be thrilled to start a new relationship with her.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...