Denver - thanks so much for posting that! It helps me know I am heading down the right path and gives me some additional hope. I think I will want to refer back to that often. You da man!
JB - Everything that I say to those who first come here are based on my experience. That's it. Others who post and give advice base it on their experience. The point is, that each situation is different. The advice that doesn't differ, IMO, is that you must have patience, focus, and give this time in order to give it a chance to work.
Good luck. I really hope that you find success here too.
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