Standing up to the punches

[Harrier]

I think most of us wish we had some of this wisdom early on. But you know there is a point. You are still fairly young.

I think it's good that you can't see yourself with someone else right now. If the D happens for you and DB has served you well. I think at some point you will be ready to find happiness with a new person.

But even if you were staying with your W, she will be eventually be a new person. I mean I am not the same person I was at 25. My W isn't the same person. I love the new W as much as the old W. Although the change was gradual, so I could adjust easier.

I think you won't be able to imagine happiness with a new person....until it happens. If that make sense.