DG - I'm glad that my post hit home with you. I really do believe what I said about the 180s. If you are truly doing things that improve who you are as a human being, you will also be improving the type of spouse that you can be also. Obviously, the hope is that this helps us get our WAS back... but it can't be the reason that we do it.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce