I experience moments almost every day when I am tempted to criticize something my husband does, but instead I keep my mouth shut and go about my business. And life goes on smoothly. If I let go and told him the thought that went through my mind, we'd be back in the same old bad feeling game. It's really not that hard to do the right thing. And it's a lot easier than correcting it later.
Thanks for checking in Lotus. I really like that advice. It is so simple, yet so important. Unfortunately, it is sometimes difficult to follow for some reason.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce