OMG...the world is ending now. She is so p!ssed. There has to be something else that is bothering her. She sounded so pleasent in her voice mail to me. I hate that she feels this way but there is absolutely NOTHING I can do about it. It makes me feel like crap. I am letting this affect my mood now.
CO-DEPENDENT. ^^^
Splitting the fee, either 50/50 or in proportion to your incomes, is "The Right Thing to Do." So don't sweat it; you're not responsible for your wife's batchit-crazy moods.