She ended the relationship, although we've both talked about that happening in the last 2 months. I feel obliged to leave as it is not a joint owned property. It is her house, that I moved into.

I came home with boxes today. Was very upbeat and positive about my day seeing houses and work stuff and seeing friends. She looked very sad.

She has agreed to relationship counselling to try and figure out what went wrong. I don't think she has any intention of repairing the relationship though. I think it will be difficult as there doesn't seem to be one of those common triggers. We communicate well, live together well, no OP, same life views etc. No idea what happened.

Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.