Thanks for the "no expectations" reminder. I actually think that X-SIL may have wanted me to sit with the family because her H will be officiating. BMF will be there to support XH and I will be supportive to both, but I'm guessing my role is to support X-SIL. Nevertheless, if GF#2 isn't sitting with the family, it says that XH is comfortable having me sit with the family and doesn't care what GF#2 thinks if she's even still in the picture.
CW, thank you for your support. It means a lot to me.
Leaving for the funeral in about 20 minutes. I hadn't counted on arriving so early (30 minutes) but that's what I need to do now.
