Standing up to the punches

[Redo]

Ironman, In my case since i knew that i came with childhood issues and saw that my wife's parents seemed more level headed than mine, I automatically assumed that whatever my wife said about my family must be true. After all she came with a more stable childhood than I. But now i see that basically i set zero boundaries with my wife. And when she broke them, all of them affected me and i went down...I should have set boundaries before it came to this. Now i realize how important good boundaries are.

SF as usual, thanks for your feedback. Yup, everytime i feel down, i try to think of people who are in much worse situation than I am. I should be tankful to god for all the good things in my life. Yes, I did let my family life define me as a person. I guess it is because i was 23 when married and still in grad-school. I never experienced life by myself. Wife on the other hand was more mature, lived and experienced dorm life.

Now that i am single, i dont know how to live it