What exactly would you expect from a meeting with her psychologist? An answer to your question as to the viability of a long term R with ur W?

Perhaps you just answered your own question. Do what's best for you, personally. Do it for yourself. Take care of yourself.

"Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending."
- Maria Robinson

M: 45 WAW: 36
T: 17 M: 14 Kids: D9
ILYBNILWY: 6/2010
W left: 2/2011
W back: 2/2012