I think it is extremely important for people to differentiate between disrespect (they wronged me), and losing respect for someone (I cannot love someone I do not respect). Reacting to perceived disrespect, versus earning back respect by controlling yourself.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
