The good news is that you have it, and it is an awesome tool. Most guys, I really do not think are selfLESS enough to develope it.
The downside, how your feeling now.
The upside, it is very easy to see things from another's POV.
Minor argument, not a major one. She was down because of work and weather, not you...
Let the small things build up and it will affect your day and mindset. Or...realize they are small things, address them, and effect your day in another direction.
Yeah, yeah: Rah rah cheerleader stuff...
Maybe it is, depends if you try it.
Pity parties are OK, but don't turn them into a day long affair.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
