I've been asking myself a lot of questions. There is one question in particular that stands out the most in my mind: can there really be a committed loving relationship between my wife and I after everything we have been through?
If I knew the answer to that question, I'd be willing to work through the rest. In specific, how do people work through the resentment? For her, I have a twenty-year history of events to overcome; things that I have done or said that she will seemingly never forget. For me, It's an issue of trust; I watched her change from Dr. Jekyll into Mr. Hyde. She's been unfaithful. She caries another man's child. Is it really possible to reestablish trust after such trauma? Have others been successful under similar circumstances?
