This is hitting me pretty hard dude. I was thinking about your all night. I feel for you man, I really, really do. I felt like we were both on the same path for a long time and we had lot to go through together. In many ways you inspired me, yet I was able to have a real discussion with you about things in our situations.
Pardon my french, but your W is a coward for doing this to you in this way. Did she really thing "faking it" would soften the blow? She is also setting a horrible example for your daughters. I hope you can show the the better way as their dad.
You might want to consider some family counseling for your Ds. As much as it pains me to say, you also have to find a way to work with your W. Maybe not now, but in the long run...for your kids.
I hope you find peace in your decisions, thoughts and feelings. I know it will be tough, but you control the whole ship now. Good luck.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
